Oy, living with someone can give a Yenta a kopveytik (headache). Retirement Yenta loves her dear hubby. LOVES him. But sometimes, no matter how hard a Yenta tries, there can be a tiff or disagreement. For these occasions, when a Yenta annoys, or gets annoyed, your dear Yenta has the answer. Build goodwill in the good times. That’s right, just as your Bubby told you as a child: play nice and your friends will play nice too. Then when the trouble arises, your mate will have all the good times with you to remind him how much he loves you. OR, it will remind a Yenta how much the Yenta loves him.