Retirement Yenta believes that your primary residence should evolve into a six month residence. You should start with your bedroom. You would like it to become Zen-like. Now is the time to finally splurge on those high priced linens, e.g., Sferra sheets. Remember, you deserve the very best. You may even reupholster a chair or two to match the linens. Oy – I almost forgot, buy a surround sound system for this room as well. You’ll want high-end sound when you watch those romantic DVDs with your loved one.